Expectations kill relations

Noting is more injurious to healthy relation than expectations. One can say that strong bonding between friends, family and relatives are brought to an end by the undue expectations. The problem is how it damages the fabric of blood as well as other important relations. Except blood relations, every other relation comes into existence with covalent sharing of the affections, desires, hopes etc. In such relations, if one tries to put the burden of expectations on the other one without considering his power to translate those into practice, this results in the decline of relations. Similarly, if one keeps alive expectations without considering the other person’s power to pay back in the same coin, one would meet the same fate as discussed above. The nature of being demanding not only collapses the relation but enhances the enmity between friends. In most of the love marriages in which the same element seems to be present, they often meet the same fate. In a relation, one should relinquish the unhealthy nature of being demanding and respect the feeling of each other.