Kate Winslet’s former lover, Louis Dowler, is yet to come to terms with the break up and the way he was so brutally discarded. Nearly three months after he was unceremoniously dumped by the Oscar winning actress when she took up with Richard Branson’s party-loving nephew, Dowler admitted that it was “still very raw” for him. “I don’t think Kate behaved well and it is still very raw for me,” the Daily Mail quoted him as saying. “I was in love with her and you can’t switch that off overnight,” Dowler said. “I’m not sure Kate treated me well,” he said. “Kate came home with me to Cornwall and we just hung out together. She met my parents and family. I thought we were inseparable. I certainly haven’t found anyone else since,” he said. The Burberry model says that at first he was blissfully happy with Kate when they met after her split from film director husband Sam Mendes. “I don’t want to go into details but it wasn’t a straight forward break-up.”