With a fair share of break-ups behind her, singer Taylor Swift says does not like to be in charge in a relationship. The Mean hitmaker insists that she is not the type of over-controlling girlfriend. “If I feel too much like I’m wearing the pants, I start to feel uncomfortable, and then we break up. It needs to be equal. If I feel too much like I’m wearing the pants, I start to feel uncomfortable, and then we break up,” she tells Harper’s Bazaar magazine. “It’s wonderful to hand over the reins to your boyfriend when you control so much of these big, high-pressure decisions, you know? That is a huge defining factor in who you choose to be with.”