Jennifer Lopez’s longtime manager Benny Medina wishes she’d stayed single a little longer after splitting up with Marc Anthony. He told Vogue if she’d let her next relationship happen naturally, she might not be bogged down with “obsessive guys (pursuing her.” And while Medina said the ‘American Idol’ judge is “not oblivious to her own reality right now,” his comments did seem a bit derogatory towards J.Lo. So should Benny start sending out his résumé? Nope, Jenny is okay with her outspoken pal. “I know Benny and he’s my best friend, my creative soul mate. I know the way he says things, and I know he would never say anything that would be hurtful to me in any way,” she told Access Hollywood. “Things can be taken out of context. You have to be aware of what can be misconstrued.” But Benny needn’t worry yet. Despite a hacked tweet from Roberto Cavalli claiming he was designing J.Lo’s next wedding dress, she and Casper are still just dating—for now.