No choice but to marry attacker: Afghan rape victim


She was jailed for adultery after being raped, then pardoned and set free. But now her brothers are threatening to kill her and with nowhere else to go, Gulnaz is resigned to marrying her attacker. Gulnaz, who does not know her exact age but is 20 or 21, spoke in a quiet voice with her blue burqa pushed up over her face. Her baby daughter, the child of her rapist, played on the floor at her feet.
“I have to marry him, I need a father for my child. I need somebody to take care of my daughter and give us a home,” she said.
“I don’t have any other place to live. My brothers have vowed to kill me and my attacker and my daughter.” Gulnaz was freed from prison on Tuesday, two years after she was jailed for a so-called moral crime — being raped by her cousin’s husband.
President Hamid Karzai pardoned her on December 1 following an international outcry, but even then it was almost two weeks before she was released. And now, in ultra-conservative Afghanistan, she faces great pressure to marry the man who attacked her, to provide security for her baby and restore family honour.
Campaigners describe such persecution, all too common in Afghanistan, as a “remnant of the Taliban era” highlighting the poor state of women’s rights, 10 years after the US-led invasion sought to put the country on a democratic path. Gulnaz was jailed after reporting the rape to the police.
“I petitioned and asked the government to arrest the man, but they arrested me. Why was I put in jail innocently?” she said. “I don’t know why we have this kind of government here, they don’t even care about a poor woman. I brought up the case to seek justice but I was put in jail.” Gulnaz was raising her child in a prison cell in Kabul. And although she was released, she is still confined. With fears for her safety, she has moved to a women’s shelter in a secret location.
Her US lawyer, Kimberley Motley, said Gulnaz was “trying to figure out the best way she can protect herself and her daughter”. But with her attacker still in jail for another five years, it will be even harder for Gulnaz to marry and move on. “Unfortunately the culture quite often decides that even if a woman is violated or a victim the best way to find protection is to embrace their attacker and marry them,” Motley said.
She said by issuing the pardon, Karzai and the prosecutor’s office recognised that rape victims were not to be persecuted. There is little sign that violence against women in Afghanistan is decreasing, despite billions of dollars of international aid which has poured into the country during the decade-long war.
The Afghan Independent Human Rights Commission logged 1,026 cases of violence against women in the second quarter of 2011 compared with 2,700 cases for the whole of 2010. About 87 percent of Afghan women report having experienced physical, sexual or psychological violence or forced marriage, according to figures quoted in an October report by the British charity Oxfam.